Thursday, September 6, 2012

Expectation Hurts






Expectation Hurts. Especially when you are thinking abt something for a long time and it doesn't happen. Sometimes when you work really hard but at the end the result is not the one you expected, we get really sad. I should not describe that emotion as sad, but its a mixed feeling  of a bit of depression and more of aggression. There are times when surprises lead to expectations. When your friend comes to your home at 12 o clock midnight during your bday and celebrate it with a cake, it is a surprise for you. When he does that for a couple of years, you obviously expect that the next time its gonna happen. But how do you react when your friend forgets your bday the next time.
Sometimes people live up to your expectation and that makes us ecstatic . But its only "sometimes". When we cant judge ourselves perfectly how do we  expect others to judge us. If expectation is optimistic ,I would ask you to expect nothing but the BEST. But remember to take the result however they make be. I move forward everyday thinking Tomorrow will be a better day. Some people call that optimism , some call expectation.