Expectation
Hurts. Especially when you are thinking abt something for a long time and it
doesn't happen. Sometimes when you work really hard but at the end the result
is not the one you expected, we get really sad. I should not describe that
emotion as sad, but its a mixed feeling of
a bit of depression and more of aggression. There are times when surprises lead
to expectations. When your friend comes to your home at 12 o clock midnight
during your bday and celebrate it with a cake, it is a surprise for you. When
he does that for a couple of years, you obviously expect that the next time its
gonna happen. But how do you react when your friend forgets your bday the next
time.
Sometimes
people live up to your expectation and that makes us ecstatic . But its only
"sometimes". When we cant judge ourselves perfectly how do we expect others to judge us. If expectation is
optimistic ,I would ask you to expect nothing but the BEST. But remember to
take the result however they make be. I move forward everyday thinking Tomorrow
will be a better day. Some people call that optimism , some call expectation.